Like a dandelion up through the pavement, I persist

Definitely agree! If fiction were only permitted to depict healthy behaviour and relationships it would be very trite and dishonest, imo. Also, while the ship I mentioned in this post is one that I find (personally) repulsive, that doesn't mean that I think no one should ship it or that people who do ship it are themselves repulsive! Like, I definitely get the appeal, it's just not pushing any of my buttons. I have other ships that are desperately unhealthy that push all my buttons.