Oh yeah no, don't worry. I was just trying to provide a better explanation than "I just happen to ship m/m", which may just be shorthand for parts of the same aspects.

I often skim over the sex parts when reading, unless the sex has some important dialogue or it's somehow plot relevant. Also.... God. With Tatort, I'm not currently reading but I should, anyway, the German words for genitalia both male and female are terrible. dnw. ugh. English is the porn language, thanks, the German words squick me.