Not to worry, I tend to get very concerned about being precise with how I communicate ideas, which can lead to axiety about potentially having expressed myself badly. Which is absolutely a Me issue and not anything you did. I don't think you were accusing me of treating things that weren't m/m or male characters as being, like, fandom's Vegetables that they should engage with even though they didn't like them as much as the dessert of dude slash and male characters and that everyone felt this way and people were only pretending to like, say, femslash on its own merits. But anyway, lol, sorry for unleashing my own brain weasels into the conversation.

There really is nothing like a spreadsheet! I find them so soothing.